A lot of people tend to want to leave long term relationships because they say there is no chemistry anymore. Some people believe that chemistry is either naturally there or it isn’t, it cannot be created. However, there are practical ways in which chemistry can be created. Let us discuss practical ways that chemistry can be achieved.
Firstly, in order to be able to achieve chemistry, both parties must be interested in achieving it. If one person in the relationship is not interested, it will not be possible to build chemistry., regardless of how much the other party wants it. If your partner is trying to build chemistry and you are not sure if that is what you want personally, it would be a good idea to question yourself on why that is the case. If the answer is you are not keen on being emotionally invested in the relationship, then ending the relationship may be a good idea. However, if you are interested in the person but have some anxiety about being too deep in relationships then you may need to seek professional help in determining the cause and how you can improve on this.
Do not hide the fact that you want to build chemistry with the other person. Do not wait for them to initiate or show you that they want to. If you are sure that you like the person and would like to pursue a stronger connection with them, be true to yourself and them. Do all you practically can to build connection on a daily. Display your authentic feelings and allow the relationship to gradually grow.
As much as you are looking forward to a healthy relationship with great chemistry, you need to be in the present and not dwell too much on the past or worry yourself too much about the future. When you are with your partner, you want to make sure that you are fully present and not distracted. Make eye contact during your conversations, engage in conversations in a meaningful way. Be invested in your partner.
When you are feeling exhausted, angry or any negative emotion, it is a good idea to take a break. Do not try to continue interacting with your partner during these negative emotions because that can ruin any effort of trying to achieve chemistry. It is okay to take a break and try to recharge, get over what you are feeling.
All dates are enjoyable and fun, but when you are trying to create chemistry, late dates are your best friend. Late dates have a certain romance flair about them. Late dates are easily romantic regardless of what you choose to do. You can have a dinner date, or a movie date and take a walk afterwards under the sky full of stars, night dates are simply the best. These will definitely help in creating that chemistry.
A lot of people avoid building chemistry in their relationships because of the fear they have of getting hurt, the relationship not working and them having to pick up the pieces after disappointment. Fear makes people become less vulnerable and authentic in their interactions with others, which then makes chemistry challenging to build. Best way to deal with fear is to try understanding why it is there and how to counter it. Accepting your fears is the first step towards winning against them.
Getting a gift for your significant other is a practical way of showing them that you care. It does not have to be expensive. It can just be a thoughtful gift or something they may have spoken about liking. This will show that you listen to them or that they matter to you. A gift can show that you think about your partner even when they are not with you. This will allude to their importance in your life. This will definitely help build chemistry in the relationship.
